I always wonder why my parent did not have any arranged marriage for me.
When i was younger, i always fantasied that if only i have a arranged marriage, i would be married off young and wouldn't be so concern of my future.
Cause it is being planned.

Watching those TV drama bout arranged marriage is always like ..
The groom is always your dad's client son or your dad's 'brother' son.
Both parties will not have a choice, cos this is their parents' decision.

Is there Reality to that?
Will there be happiness?
Can feelings really be adapted after a period of time together?
I wondered ~

Guess what?
I heard from my friend that my gd fren is getting married.
A pre-marriage arranged by her family too.
*stunned with mouth open and no words came out*
Though i had already heard this from her way before ..
But this time, it is being fixed.
The date is there, the groom is there ..

I was way stunned and don't know how to react to the news ..
I don't know if this is a good or bad thing.
This is something which i longed for when i am younger ..
But right at that point of time when i heard that, i don't know what to do.
I really couldn't imagine if the person was me.
How will i react?
Can i even protest?

I don't know how my friend reacted to that ..
I am just ... shock i guess..

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